A heartfelt eulogy for my best friend, Marvin Edgar Castro January 26, 2017 Marv and I met during our first class, of our first morning, of 7th Grade. As we soon noticed that day that we shared several classes, I seem to recall saying, ?Well? I guess we?re supposed to be friends!? We quickly realized that, among other things, we shared loves of music, humor, sarcasm, and drawing cartoons. Soon enough, we introduced our parents, and thereafter, siblings, cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents, &etc. We all became extended family. My side all knows Marvin, and vice versa. At the time, when we were young, we sort of looked alike too, to the extent that teachers ? and even, once, Marvin?s beloved aunt, Ana Gloria, for a moment from behind, got us confused. In fact, as I so looked up to him, I took that as a high compliment. In time we brought other friends into our tight-knit circle, 3 in particular remaining today ? Keith, Jeff, and Sean. Together we?d experience teachers, girlfriends, concerts, cars, movies, holidays, graduations, birthdays, playoffs, and other teen & young adult rites of passage. Who could forget, of course, those legendary Superbowl parties at the Castros? home on Somerset Drive? Eventually, we?d introduce wives and children too. For 40 years ? since that long-ago September morning in classroom #2 at Ralston Intermediate School, Marv & I have been soulmates, goofballs, partners in crime, brothers, and best friends. But that?s the thing about Marvin? He?s so nice, and SO genuine, that EVERYONE considers him their longtime Best Friend!!!! I have a few?. But who knows, he probably has Forty or Fifty!!! In any event. If you?d asked me back in 7th Grade, or at Carlmont High, or San Francisco State (where Marv joined me for 1 or 2 semesters) ? or at any moment in the 3 decades since ? I certainly couldn?t have seen this day coming. That Marv has left us at such a young & tender age is not only unfair and a tragedy for his family ? Geno, Stephanie, Daniella, Julie, Rosa & Luis, Louis & family; Vicky, Karla, Lorraine, Ana, and all the cousins ? and of course all the rest of us who knew and loved him. But, of course, it makes our time and memories together only that more precious. I?m grateful that Marv & I had opportunity to travel together. From shared Castro family trips to Tahoe, to annual returns during high school & college for January snow days, to the epic trip we shared during college to my native East Coast ? my hometown of Buffalo, across the Canadian border to Toronto, and, of course, to New York City, spawning dear and hilarious(!!) memories. That we lived for 2 weeks on the road together without a single disagreement, clued me in for the first time that ours was a platonic marriage that truly worked. Our deep friendship really helped pull this lonesome, displaced East Coaster, up and into renewed life as a happy & settled Californian. As memories and laughs swirl in my head, one thing is clear. Marvin was a uniquely special person, with the ability to uplift all in his sphere. Today I?m relieved and happy Marvin is no longer suffering and in pain, and is instead bathed in the warm company of his Lord. That said?. We love and miss you, pal. Today and always.