Diana Mavis Lu Shing

Birth date: Sep 19, 1961 Death date: Sep 26, 2025

Diana Mavis Lu Shing of San Francisco, California, born on September 19th, 1961 in Manhattan, New York, passed away peacefully in Kaiser Permanente San Francisco Medical Center on September 26th, 2025 at the age of 64. She is sur Read Obituary

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Angie Yao

1w ago

When my husband, Lou and I attended Diana's funeral, we got to meet her immediate and extended family as well as her SF friends. When family members and friends shared their testimony and I talked with the attendees, I felt the warmth and shared love we had for Diana in the room. I was sad yet happy to hear stories of Diana and not surprised at how much she affected others. I was thrilled to meet EBJ (Emily, Brandon & James, her niece and nephews) as young adults. It was so nice to meet family and friends in person that Diana had talked about. Her work colleagues from Kaiser Permanente attending the funeral tells me that Diana made a lasting impact at work. After the funeral I talked with people at lunch I just met that day; it was as if we were friends for a long time.
A key phrase at the funeral, lunch and cemetery service was "that is so Diana". From teen to adult, I relied on Diana for advice. Going forward, when life throws me a curveball, my phrase will be "what would Diana say".
I will miss her dearly.

Shout out to Villy-- she did a wonderful job officiating the funeral. Villy was by Diana's side when she passed. She was the SF point person assisting Diana's brothers who lived out of state. Villy helped the family to navigate the process of laying to rest their sister.

(I promised to share photos of Diana when we were teens but somehow I can't load. I will try to attach to an email.)

Megan Wegmann

3w ago

Diana was such a delightful person with a perspective that always made me smile. I knew Diana as a dedicated swimmer at crunch. She always said “keep swimming”! I saw her almost every day and cherish all the conversations and laughs we got to share. It was a privilege to know her. She had a great sense of humor and was so fun to talk to.

Kelvin Yip

3w ago

I first met Diana around 2011 when we both worked at EMC. We weren’t on the same team, but her cube was right across from mine, which sparked our friendly banter - small jokes, shared laughter, and genuine conversations.

Even back then, what stood out most was her kind heart and willingness to help others, qualities that have always stayed with me.

Years later, we reconnected over Korean BBQ this past April, and she was just as warm, kind, and full of positive energy as I remembered.

Rest in peace, Diana

Eleanor M.

3w ago

Planted a Memorial Tree in honor of Diana.

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Gladys Wong

3w ago

We had a fun "run" and I was looking forward to 2026. You gently chided me about not getting out to travel; you had done 6 continents. In your memory, I will get a move on, thinking of you as I wander.

Larry Salzer

3w ago

I was introduced to Diana through her longtime friend Villy in the early 1990s. Over the years we enjoyed many hilarious outings, dinners and fun times together including for delicious dim sum, trips to the beach and at each other’s homes. I will forever remember Diana for her generosity, wonderful laugh, common sense, warm smile, devotion to loved ones and welcoming heart. Her memory is a blessing. I offer my sincere condolences to the Lu Shing family, her dear friend Villy and the wide circle of people whose spirits were lightened by her.

Janice Low

3w ago

When I met Diana and Yoga Class about eight years ago we instantly hit it off and shared enjoying the class every week! Diana also loved the Zumba class and swimming! Then Covid hit… Every Saturday morning I would get a text message to remind me there was a zoom yoga class, her favorite greeting “Wakie Wakie” Are you going to Janet’s class, and then Tony’s class?” This was a five year long weekly connection.I would miss those text greetings whenever she traveled, but I knew she would be back and we would resume and perhaps connect for lunch!
A few weeks ago I expected her to be back and we would go to lunch, and I expected to see her in Tony’s class last Friday… No Diana… as I kept looking for her to appear. Something in the air felt off….
She always brought a good feeling surrounding her, always being genuine. I will miss her, and the world will have a little empty spot without her. Rest in peace, Diana as we will always remember your warmth, smile and caring.
Janice and Richard

Fabian H.

3w ago

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Iva Lee

3w ago

We (Fabian and I) knew Diana a short time, since 2021. She loved going to the movies, that’s how we met through attending free movie screenings. It was always a fun gathering talking about her demanding work, demanding health routine of yoga and swimming, travel memories and our diets. We somehow were able to fit in going to software & security expos and parties in SF, getting together to celebrate birthdays and for the first time planning to travel together in 2026!
Diana was a special person. She was insightful, had a subtle & wicked sense of humor, and inclusive to all including my deaf daughter, Liane. She always reached out to her and tried to gesture/sign whenever we were together. I felt like we were becoming her SF family. I will miss her laughter, kindness and love. Although we’ve known her too short a time, she deeply touched our lives and will stay in our hearts forever.

“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart.”
—Helen Keller

A donation has been made to BAYCAT in loving memory of Diana from the Lee Family.

Pat L

3w ago

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With love and remembrance of our dear Diana — forever stylish, full of laughter, and never afraid to speak her mind. Her laughter, love, and little bit of sass will continue to brighten our lives.
— With love, the Louie Family

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