Birth date: Mar 15, 1956 Death date: Nov 9, 2025
Gail Arnetta Riley (1956 - 2025) Gail Arnetta Riley, proud mother of Veronica; proud aunt to her legion of nieces, nephews, and anyone who enjoyed being loved by her; doting “Gamma” to her fur babies, Nylah Bear and Whitney; and Read Obituary
Honoring a True Friend
It started as a quick meeting on a quiet, isolated campus far away from anything either of us had previously known — the college campus of Cal Poly in San Luis Obispo, CA. In that agriculturally focused community, two young souls met: Gail — mature, experienced, and confident — and Valerie — shy, fearful, but learning to step out in faith and become.
Together, we forged a friendship that only we could truly understand — one filled with treasured moments, shared secrets, and unconditional love.
One day, during a heated argument, Gail announced to me, “I don’t know why you’re so mad — you know I am your only friend in life!” That audacious statement broke the tension and sent us both into hysterical laughter. It became an unspoken apology and a phrase that would forever define our bond. From then on, we lovingly referred to each other as “the only friend you have in life.”
A true friend is someone you can rely on — who treats you with respect, has your best interests at heart, and provides emotional safety and trust. True friends make you feel comfortable being yourself. They show empathy, support your personal growth, and celebrate your successes. Gail was all of that — and more. Marriages, children, careers, and life’s many changes never altered the depth of our friendship.
I was fortunate to visit her, to sit by her side, and to share moments of quiet companionship. Before she transitioned I returned with a few of our college friends. We shared pictures and stories from our Cal Poly days. Her daughter and nieces listened with smiles and laughter as we brought to life the Gail they hadn’t known before. It was a beautiful, bittersweet day.
Gail — thank you for everything. I expect you to hold the gate open when my time comes. 😂😇
I love you. Rest in eternal peace my only friend in life.💛
Rest in peace, my only friend in life. 💛
