Auntie Sylvia was a beautiful, warm and loving lady, she exuded an old world elegance. So quick to smile and giggle and show how delighted she is to see you! I feel so fortunate and blessed to be a part of the Sadueste family. Reena and I were inseparable during our teen years so I got to spend a lot of time with her family. I feel so blessed having been the “4th” daughter. Uncle Relli and I have birthdays one day apart. He would say, “familia ko ‘yan”! Meaning she’s one of my family.
Auntie Sylvia had that special knack of making you feel loved. You’re very aware she makes room for you in her heart. Here’s an example of a memory I often recall ...
Firstly, pancit is a traditional noodle dish served on birthdays or special occasions. I was visiting the Sadueste’s home on Marlin Drive one Saturday in 1975. I came up to visit from San Jose and Auntie Sylvia, Reena, Renzi, Rizza and I were in the family room talking about food, I said I love pancit and described how delicious it is. I said in my know it all way, “that’s served on birthdays and special occasions”. After a while, Reena and I went to the other side of the house to hang out. When we were called to dinner, there it was ... pancit. Auntie Sylvia said I made pancit for your visit! I was so touched and delighted that she noticed and took the time to make a dish reserved for birthdays and special occasions.
To Reena, Renzi, Rizza and family, may God comfort your hearts and carry you through this difficult time.
I believe Auntie Sylvia is home with our Lord Jesus Christ and reunited with Uncle Relli. Until we see each other again, rest in peace Auntie Syl!
Lovingly and prayerfully,
Marti